what should do and what should not?,,

im in a confusion.. there is somethng that i should told to someone and when i did, it went bad.. what if i didnt ?
do the situation will be the same.. of coz not!
it will be worse!
omg!
then? what should i do?
hurmmm.. i just did not want to break anyone's heart but now im the broken hearted girl..
its funny how life really makes you wonder about those little things and the way it react to you..
but its ok.. later or sooner it will slowly fade..
i believe in someone's words once said to me:-
 " u cannot control the things that happen to you...
                          but you can control the way you react to them .... "
well.. thats life.. like it or not we had to play the 'games'...=)